Unfortunately, we live in an era where many people misuse social media. They forget or perhaps never learned that this space holds immense power for good.
Yes, social media can be fun and engaging, but beyond that, it has birthed movements, built careers, created global stars, and even served as a therapy space for those going through hard times. Still, many have chosen to use it for the wrong reasons.
We’ve seen how some who abused social media ended up behind bars, while those who embraced its positive side earned accolades and long-term recognition.
Remember Aminu Adamu Muhammed?
In June 2022, a young student from the Federal University, Dutse, Jigawa State, was arrested after tweeting about the First Lady, Aisha Buhari. That tweet, perceived as cyberbullying, cost him his freedom. Aminu, a young, promising Nigerian could have chosen his words carefully. Instead, he traded his freedom for a few seconds of online attention. How did we get here? And when those who bully others are asked for their motive, the answer is often: “I just wanted to trend.” Outrageous, isn’t it?
But the truth is, the same platform used to mock, shame, or attack others can be used to shine honorably.
Look at Peller and Jadrolita-creators who have used social media to build brands, inspire minds, and grow authentic communities. They chose purpose over pettiness. We can’t deny they’re doing well because they carved a niche for themselves instead of using their voices to pull others down.
Think of Tunde Onakoya, who recently broke the world record in chess marathons and made it into the Guinness Book of Records. Or little Emmanuella, who rose to fame through wholesome comedy skits. These stories prove that social media, when used wisely can elevate anyone, regardless of background.
Here’s a reminder for the bullies:
You can call out issues respectfully. You can be heard without being harsh. You can trend for the right reasons.
Many people online chase clout through negativity, but here’s the twist; they don’t last. Fame built on insults and shame has no roots. Why? Because you can’t shine using someone else’s pain. God doesn’t anoint disgraceful acts.
No serious brand or person wants to associate with someone who becomes known for tearing others down. The identity you project is the reputation people will remember.
Let’s not forget:
Social media is an escape route for many people dealing with mental health struggles, grief, rejection, and real-life storms. So when someone finds the courage to show up online, it’s sad that some use that opportunity to tear them down.
Cyberbullying has no rewards. It causes more harm than many realize. Victims often suffer in silence, their confidence shattered. Some withdraw from online spaces completely. Others struggle with anxiety, depression, or self-worth issues—all because of a few cruel comments.
One of the worst trends today is body shaming. It’s become far too common. People no longer hesitate to post their pictures not because they lack confidence but because they no longer feel safe. They fear the backlash, the mockery, the toxic “jokes.”
To anyone reading this:
Please stop cyberbullying. Stop the trolling. Stop the body shaming.
Instead, let’s use this space to uplift and heal.
Social media should be a safe place. Let’s help keep it that way.
Onono Onimisi
Writer and Adult Educationist
Email: onimisionono54@gmail.com
