In a heartfelt response to comments made by former Edo State Governor Adams Oshiomhole regarding childlessness, Dr. Mrs. Betsy Obaseki has extended words of comfort and encouragement to women who have faced similar challenges.
Reflecting on her own experiences with conception, miscarriages, and stillbirths, Mrs. Obaseki stated, “My words of comfort to you, like myself, who have conceived and experienced miscarriages, painful stillbirths, and evacuations of babies who died in our wombs, is this: You are not barren. I dare to call you fruitful. You and I are potential and proud mothers of children who will come in God’s time. Enjoy the life God has given you.”
She emphasized the importance of shifting focus away from the challenges of childbearing, urging women to remain hopeful. “Take your mind off your challenge, and before you know it, children will start coming. Being fruitful is not limited to childbearing. It is about impacting lives and creating positive change in society.”
Mrs. Obaseki concluded her message with a powerful reminder: “There is no point in feeling bad. Women can fulfill God’s purpose in many ways beyond motherhood.”
Her comments resonate deeply with many who have faced similar struggles, highlighting the broader definition of motherhood and the potential for women to make meaningful contributions to society, regardless of their childbearing status.